Real love

I was in a conversation with a young lady yesterday and from what I could gather, there is a lot of young ladies who don’t know just how precious they. They don’t know that they are in fact a gift from the Lord to their future spouse.

So here’s the truth. Firstly you must know that God has created a mate for you (not mates) so there is really no need to go through every possible meaningless relationship hoping he might be the one.

 Isaiah 34 16 Look in the scroll of the LORD and read: None of these will be missing, not one will lack her mate. For it is his mouth (God) that has given the order, and his Spirit will gather them together.

Secondly, you must know that love is important. You must know you are worthy to be loved, but please don’t miss the point; you are worthy to be loved by you first before anyone else can love you. How can you expect a man to love you, when you don’t love you? How will you then verify the love that a man claims to have for you?

Thirdly, you must know this – only God can teach you love, for He himself is love. Spend time with Him. Read His word and praying for spiritual fulfillment. And as you do this you will begin to transform inwardly. You will know your real value and you will begin to value yourself and will automatically begin to want to wait on God for a spouse. You will be fulfilled and content.

And this is followed by this truth - you will begin to understand that you are indeed a blessing. And sometimes some work has to be done by God in your life to get you to that point. As we all know that a diamond or precious stone is found in rubble and then cleaned up to reveal its real value. So, when you’re still in the rubble, let it be God who cleans you up, allow His process to happen in you. And when He is done your real value will shine through.

Proverbs 19:14 Houses and wealth are inherited from parents, but a prudent wife is from the LORD.

Ecclesiastes 9:9 Live happily with the woman you love through all the meaningless days of life that God has given you under the sun. The wife God gives you is your reward for all your earthly toil.  

Be blessed beyond…