Maturity comes from experience.

Maturity isn’t just about how old one is. It’s a lot of processes that one has gone through to certify them matured.

For instance one may have a great job with amazing benefits, but because they haven’t had any life lessons on money they might spend their earnings anyhow.

But one who has had a fair share of either poverty or financial strain will spend their earnings different.

Maturity comes from experience.

So why then are we quick to judge those who seem to be slow in grasping life. I mean we also didn’t know better until it happened to us. And did we even ask for “life changing experiences” to happen to us? No we didn’t; it just happened and we were changed by them.

It’s about awareness; calmly seeking understanding and as a result we become mature.

We all know life is the best teacher; but if life has taught others about certain things/experiences yet, how then do you judge?

For a girl who has had it all knows different to a girl who has never had it. She probably doesn’t know that one won’t die if they pass one day without a meal. She may also not know that one can be happy even without branded clothes.

Judge less and learn more.

Be blessed Beyond J

Fortunate.