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THE STRENGTH TO GO ON...

The sadest truth is that thousands of women are living with abuse . By living , I mean they literally can’t be away from it. It’s not because they don’t want to be free from it, but because they are scared they are not strong enough. It’s quite easy to sit on other side of the fence and judge, not knowing the going ons inside that lead to what we see. As a young woman who survived sexual abuse and stalking, i was made to believe that indeed it was my fault. I had questions in my head with no single answer to them. Although my family and friends thought I was ok, I was still dissapointed at myself, replaying the nigt in my head over and over again, thinking of things I should have done to avoid the playout. It was when I met this amazing woman from Pretoria who made me realise these important facts: -        No person askes to be abused, we are all equal and therefore mutual respect is the way we should live. -        Abusers of any kind pick they vactims very well, for i